at what age we should send to school and what type of school

i nak tanya, my dotter going to be 3 yrs old this 25th june.
i'm planning to send her to school next yr... u all rasa ok ke i takut plak nanti dia boring
bila dia dah 6 yrs nanti...
if nak hantar what kind of school....

i hope ypu all can share your experiance and advcie .... Thanks

aziiemy

nina, my son masa nak masuk 4yo.. dok bising nak pegi school.. so i pun bawaklah dia kat satu tadika ni.. cakap kat guru besar tu.. nak test satu hari dulu....
memang i kena tunggu dia kat tadika tu.. sit next to him dlm classroom pasal tak kasi i balik.. masa tu ada dlm 6 org budak 4yo.. and ada sorng tu dok menangis je pasal nak balik.. my son tak pandai berkawan lagi.. .
last last i decide tak yah antar lah..
next month tu, masa jln jln kat subang parade.. nampak tumble tots.. so pegi tanya.. n we decide to enrol him for tumble tot class.. alaa class main main jer..  he enjoyed it.. lagi pun 1 jam setengah.. tinggalkan dia kat situ..
skrg sudah 5yo baru masuk tadika..

i think kalau 3 yo boleh join kelas playgroup.. belajar berkawan.. main main..

danielly

Originally posted by ninanurin at 14-6-2007 11:00 AM
i nak tanya, my dotter going to be 3 yrs old this 25th june.
i'm planning to send her to school next yr... u all rasa ok ke i takut plak nanti dia boring
bila dia dah 6 yrs nanti...
if nak h ...

hi ninanurin,

our daughters share the same birthday  im also planning to send her to playschool next year.  actually my plan was to wait until she turns 4 but my hubby insisted that it has to be next year.  im also quite worried that she'll get bored because she knows her abc's when she was only 1 year++ Now she can do simple calculation and also learning how to read.

aaaa my sons pun kena register for school this year for next year's term

actually register kat kindie. so means 2 days in a week je ke kindie.

playgroup here starts at the age of 0 till 5yrs old. but again depends on centres and the group leader for that particular group. some only accept 0-2yrs, and some 0-5yrs. the one that i bring my sons to the age group is from 0-4yrs old. usually playgroup is 2 hours but then since it starts at 9am... i selalu pergi pukul 9.30am or 1/4 to 10am. they would have arts & crafts time, preparing meal time, and we mum's get to drink coffee while yapping..... at times, we do buat outdoor get-together at parks or mcdonalds.... so thats playgroup.

so it will be playgroup once a week and kindie twice a week.

pre-school starts when they are 6yrs old. thats 5day perweek. at the age 6, tak yah la gi playgroup lagi....

grade 1 starts when they are 7yrs old.

iye... how nice.... happy advance birthday

actually i takut sngt dia boared bila pegi tempat yg kena belajar ni, i ingat nak antar mcm aziiemylah
yg parah nya now we all shifted from kl to PNG, nak cari a play school masya allah susah...
i just want her to be socialise je and kill sometime rather dok dgn bibik tu mcm tak ada faedah je

kat png ni ada ke class mcm tu... i dah penat survey dah...
i plan nak cari tempat  yg mcm tu lah...

KakFie

at what age?
when he/she exudes school readyness.

what type of school?
bergantung what type of school you are looking for.  Setengah parents  nak anak  belajar structured ABC, 123 cepat cepat.  Setengah parents nak anak  belajar socialise, live skill etc within a more relaxed environment. So bergantung.

Tapi rasanya lebih banyak kindy yang no 1 dari no2 kot.  Memang susah nak cari.  Unless theres a revolution in the education philosophy.

my-alja

i plan to send my doter next yr when she is 2 1/2 yrs old....totally like the no.2, k.fie mentioned above...

academic is not my target at this age...just socialising and communication skills

[ Last edited by  my-alja at 19-6-2007 09:34 AM ]

kismis

nina.. Png ada tumble tots... kat area Queensbay mall.. u boleh check tgk.. few of my frens ada hantar anak dia kat situ.. tp mmg ramai chinese tots.. takpelah.. kasik depa bekawan, kan...

serimaya

i send my son to kindie when he was 4.now by age 5, he can read newspaper walaupun merangkak-rangkak...
kalau naik kereta semua sign board dia baca... (practise make perfect... )

rasanya ok hantar awal coz bukan belajar berat2 pun..just jumpa and mix around dgn budak sebaya dia jer...

[ Last edited by  serimaya at 19-6-2007 08:09 PM ]

i jumpa this school starbright, start at 9 habis at 12 mcm tu lah lebih kurang, tapi dia ajar mcm bnyk je... cian
lah pulak...kan...
now she know how to right ABC ikut kita lah, then 123 pun ikut kita gaklah...
hmm peninglah

LVgirl

Boleh tak explain kat I play group tu macam mana?Kat my area ni ada la satu kinder buat play group tapi i tahu sangat defination nyer.

Now days my girl baru 2years +++.This October baru 3tahun.

Sekarang ni i sending here to Kindermusic kat Ikano tu and so far she enjoy the class.Now i'm thinking nak hantar dia ke TUMBLE TOTS tapi akan pergi trial class dulu tengok mcm mana.

My hubby plan tak nak hantar dia pergi kinder awal sangat takut dia boring so we are plan send her to music class,art class,drame class etccc...until dia 6years baru hantar kinder.

tina^^

Originally posted by ninanurin at 14-6-2007 11:00 AM
i nak tanya, my dotter going to be 3 yrs old this 25th june.
i'm planning to send her to school next yr... u all rasa ok ke i takut plak nanti dia boring
bila dia dah 6 yrs nanti...
if nak h ...

ku google around information and first hand experience abt this topic...

ada one mother nie told me, she send her 3 and 5 yrs doter to various places of kindy...smart reader, kumon, lorna vistonetc (u name it)...seawal anak2 dier boleh masok kindy tue.

hasilnyer???

her children can read in malay & english dari umur 3 thn, boleh buat simple calculation, etc etc.

tp now, the older sister sudah darjah 3, and the adik baru masok darjah 1...she siad anak2 dier tanak tumpu perhatian dkt skolah coz they complaint the lesson yg cekgu ajar is way tooooo ez for em, and not challanging enaf (coz derang dah pick up sumer tue masa toddler lagik)...


hasilnyer lagik...dier asek kena panggil cikgu kat skolah coz masalah displin. bukan aper, anak dier mcm malas mau buat homework, tak focus in the class (buat kerje lain instead dengar cekgu ajar and such)

dier tak salahkan cikgu, dan tak salahkan anak dier...cuma she must find way utk anak dier belajar ilmu yg lebe tinggi dari aper yg cekgu darjah 1 & 3 tue ajar...if not, it will de-motivate anak2 dier ker skolah..


payah jugak gitu kan.....early exposure might create prob camnie la pulak biler budak2 lebe bijak dari umur dan sillibus skolahnyer sekarang.......


adussss

midori88

hmm..camtu plak erk..tulah skrg nie aku tgk young mothers especiallynyer eager sgt nak hantar anak gi sana sini..kdg2 aku tgk rasa cam kesian kat budak..pack giler schedule..

akubest

masalah member ko tuh tak seberat dengan masalah budak yang tak reti baca/calculate and end up sama gak...kaco org dalam klas....buat bising....sbb satu benda pon tak paham cekgu ajar.......jgn citer bab focus ahhhh......

manusia nih mmg Allah bagi macam2 masalah.....

bagi aku biorle budak2 tuh buat problem bila dia dah tau...standard la tu.....depada dia ketinggalan, bior dia ke depan.....aku pon.....kalo anak aku pandai, kita la main peranan dan sama2 bincang ngan cekgu....bagi dia jadik mentor ke hape......pastu tak yah kasik budak tuh pulun belajo pagi petang siang malam....

bagi kat sekolah main2...petang2 suh masuk art class ke, klas ngaji ke, klas tahfiz ke, klas swimming ke, horse riding ke....nih suh budak2 tuh ngadapa buku 24 jam sure lah boring.....

akubest

Allah......kita dulu2 pon takkan la kurang pack......aku kandar beg dari jah satu sampai darjah 3......jalan kaki ...adala 3 km......jah 4 aku sekolah pandai baru mak aku belikan beskal....2 tahun aku mengayuh...jalan kampung, jalan raya redah semua....skang budak2 naik bas, dapat lak bas air cond, umah air cond...nak nak ada maid...makanan dah terhidang...cukup masa pegi klas agama petang.....hujung minggu main playstation tak de gaduh nak basuh kasut ke, baju ke, mak pak bwk gi jenjalan hujung minggu......yang tuh pon nak kesian ke......??????

aku pon pelik skang mak bapak terlebih concern anak letih la, apala.....aku ingat kalo mak pak aku kesian kat aku dulu2.......tak la aku kat sini skang......ye lah..kesian punya pasal...baik tok sah antar anak g sekolah.......

mencari ilmu bior susah janji berkat........

nih org nak anto anak sekolah, kita pon nak anto,......tapi sebok la kesian budak, etc......kalo nak kesian kat budak.....amikla cekgu ajar anak kat umah jek......abes masalah......

so what u r suggesting is antar je ke sekolah and let them learn as early as 3 yrs old, then kalau masa depan
anak2 dah boring then we work with the school to make it different,
btm line is better for them to be advance rather then kebelakang....

u hantar anak u gi mana... at what age...

akubest

suka hati hang lah........bak kata hafsham...jalan kena ke depan bukan ke belakang......

orang sekarang anak pandai pon susah hati...aku pon pelik.....siap skeptical lagik...apa la nak jadik anak aku nih kalo pandai......

aku maleh nak citer hal aku sbb aku tak mo orang ikut aku, atau bersetuju ngan aku....sbb orang bela anak2 objektif lain2.....ada yang nak pandai, ada yang nak tingkatkan IQ, ada yang teruja ngan konsep EQ, pada aku....aku tak harap anak aku pandai...tapi kalo pandai tak la menjadikan itu satu masalah.....aku cuma nak anak aku banyak exposures.....bukan dok terperap kat umah main ngan atuk, atau dok ngan maid......

aku hantar anak aku as early as 3 years old......dua2......tapi performance lain2...so mmg tak leh generalised......anak sulong 4 years mmg sylabus sampai kena huruf....smart reader tak into baca lagik...lantak dialah.....tapi at 5 dia dah boleh baca...boleh tahan la.....yang no 2....tak kenai huruf tapi dah boleh baca....pada yang baca buku ladybird tuh my 3 years old doter mmg dah leh baca sampai 3b....tapi abc tatau...dan sesuka hati jek bila nak baca.....lantaklah.....aku nih bukan jenis suka puji anak.....bagi aku anak2 kita semuanya sama.....yang melainkan mereka hanya pada exposures yang dia orang dapat.....

skang nak2 aku dua2 kat krista.buat pengetahuan ngko....tetiap tahun aku tuko tadika...sbb nak bagi environment lain2......derang kata nanti tak konsisten la hape...lantaklah.....sbb motive aku nak bagi lain2 exposures....to let them learn many thing from diffrenet sources......

menarik jugak idea you ni... actually i don't really paksa dia sebb i pun tak lah rajin sangt but cian kan dia she
looks like intersted sngt and teringin sngt nak baca mcm cousin yg yg a yr older then her...
so i fikir baik antar dia gi school let her socialise and learn something.
Actually i harap anak i pandai sbb i tak pandai and i've gone thru all the hard work, so kalau dia pandai tak lah susah mcm i nanti... kalau umur i tak panjang at least i know that she's doing fine n tak susahkan sesapa.

now bila dah baca semua org nya posting then i realise kid kena let her be on her own develop ikut
kemampuan dia sendiri, kita just mcm guidance je... betui ke i fikir ni

eh mcm mana boleh ter post 2 kali ni ... Ya allah sorry lah