Apresiasi bukan dengan wang ringgit !

Longhairlady

Senang citer, biar ada balance in everything...

dutchy

what are words w/o a sound action to backed them up with Aji ?

mere words....and words are cheap and easy to churned out, just open ur mouth and like a steady stream they'll come out

for a woman whom can't be bothered to be smothered with wishy washy, what others way do you proposed, in order to show ur undying appreciation towards ur other half?

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by dutchy at 18-1-2008 04:18 PM
what are words w/o a sound action to backed them up with Aji ?

mere words....and words are cheap and easy to churned out, just open ur mouth and like a steady stream they'll come out

for a ...

thru silence

and u know and they know, women hate any silence

ade ke pompuan akan faham, lelaki menghargai diri perempuan itew dengan 'berdiam diri' ???

they ask man to do the impossible and yet they cannot comprehend this 'impossible' feature of man's attitude..btui dak ???

Madiey

Elegance silence.....

rockabebe

Bagi pendapat Rock, men and women have different interpretations of how they would want to be and feel appreciated. Ye lah, women are from venus and men are from Mars kan?

Bagi lelaki esp. yg mampu .. mostly berfikiran yg  the easiet way for them to show their appreciation to women is in terms of monetary value.  They THINK that this is what most women want - ye le.. pompuan kan nafsu membeli belah nye besar.. kemahuan lebih besar dari kehendak.. Rock ada pengalaman cam ni.. ada one phase of our life, hubby selalu terlalu busy.. tak de masa nak spend masa with Rock and family.. semua cukup, rumah ada, maid ada, keretea, duit belanja, duit shopping, holiday, gold credit card .. cuma yg tak ada.. his presence.. sampai tak larat nak shopping dah, sampai satu tahap dah terlarat nak shopping baju or handbag or what not.. all I wanted is  to spend time with HIM, klu pergi shopping.. tak beli apa-apa pun tak apa.. asalkan he is with me.. But I am glad to say that now he has changed.  Money is not everything.. and you don't need a RM3k or RM10k handbag just to make you feel good about yourself...that is a very shallow attitude and mentality kalau that is the case..

For women lak.. the smallest thing matters.. kengkadang.. hubby just tolong angkat kan kain or prepare breakfast utk dia.. dia dah cukup berbesar hati.. Like me now, hubby will do all the cooking during weekend.. he says it is because he appreciates my effort during weekdays.. with siapkan and htr anak sekolah, memasak, pergi beli groceries, kemas rumah, even though I am also working, since we don't have a maid anymore. Now ni.. waktu weekend, I am free to wake up at anytime, with breakfast dah ready, to lunch and dinner.. I don't get any flowers or what not, but I do value this more.. And bila malam-malam, after a tough day.. anak dah tidur,  we both tengok tv together, mesti dapat milo panas satu mug dari hubby.. that's love and appreciation to me

Yg penting.. communication and understanding.. kalau wife or hubby tak cakap.. try put yourself in her/his shoes... try to imagine what it will be like.. sebab tu dlm Islam, suami and isteri mesti ada sifat and perasaan kasih mengasihini - sifat kesian -  with one another.. kesian isteri penat tonggang terbalik uruskan keje rumah..even though she doesn't complaint, cuba bersifat kesian.. help her with something without her even asking you too.. I bet she would love to just sit down with her feet up, reading newspaper or watching tv, cam hubby dia selalu buat tu...

[ Last edited by  rockabebe at 18-1-2008 12:46 PM ]

Longhairlady

Bila bc citer awak.., teringat plk kat kwn baik sy... Citer dia lbh kurang mcm
citer awak... Hubby dia dulu taklah busy sgt..., n hidup diorg biasa je... Masa
tu hubby dia slalu tlg dia sidai bj n slalu ada kat rumah pas balik dr kerja...
Kira happy gitu...

Now kehdpan diorg makin mewah..., but hubby dia slalu takde... busy
memanjang... Tlg2 buat kerja rumah dah takde dah... Duit byk tp hati
tak happy... smpi ada depression... N something happened which really
shook us... Now hubby dia cuba cut down a bit on his business...
wpun keadaan msh tak byk berubah...

Money cannot buy happiness.... though it is important... Ppuan mmg
nak attention n dibelai... Small gestures tu very important to women..
wpun mngkn pd lelaki perkara tu remeh temeh...

Dunhill.

Originally posted by Longhairlady at 18-1-2008 09:30 PM
Bila bc citer awak.., teringat plk kat kwn baik sy... Citer dia lbh kurang mcm
citer awak... Hubby dia dulu taklah busy sgt..., n hidup diorg biasa je... Masa
tu hubby dia slalu tlg dia sidai b ...

Dunhill amat bersimpati.. Kasihan kan ???  

NURMIMIE

ala..

tak hargai aku tak per..

aku tau menghargai diri aku sendiri..

kerana diri ku begitu berharga kekdahnya..

eh.. tak lari tajuk keww??

Longhairlady

Yup...., sgt2 kesian... Sy tak sangka she will turn out this way...
Ada high blood, depression.... But now dia cuba tak nak bergantung
pada pills semua.... Kalau sy tgk dia, kdg2 rasa nak mengalir airmata...

LostSoul

dutchy, i prefer actions... but giving some appreciation with action does not mean that my guy has to spend.. it can be free.. creativity comes in many ways..