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cam ner nk atasi masalah rendah diri

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Post time 2-1-2008 09:32 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by sunshine66 at 2-1-2008 05:31 AM
yea btui2..ade bf nyusah kan je....


eh...... kadang2 x gak........
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Post time 2-1-2008 10:40 AM | Show all posts
Hassinu amwalakum bizzakah....

ahkak tgk eklan neh dlm tb3 smalam...
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Post time 2-1-2008 10:41 AM | Show all posts
kiter rase rendah diri sbb kiter rase diri takc antik.. kiter rase diri kiter bodoh....

tp sbb dah rase camntu takkan nak biar jer kan... kene lah buat sesuatewww

nengok diri ko.. tanyer kawan2 ko.. pemakaian ko elok tak..kemas tak... sedap tak mate memnadnag... kl ko pakai tudung... kene tak tudung dengan baju ko....

kl pakai mekap.. sesuwei tak mekap ko....

kl pekerjaan.. kl rase bodoh.. belajar.... kl tak tau bertanyer.... carik ilmu sebanyak mingkin....

org yg rajin bertanyer ni cepat dapat ilmu... dan cepat ilang rase rendah diri sbb dah banyk mende yg tau.....
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Post time 2-1-2008 03:20 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by sunshine66 at 2-1-2008 05:33 AM
ko dpt company mane eh..aku x lame lagi trainee di shell...lagi takut wei...aku x tau la leh buat keje ke x...riso nih


weh...ko nnti trainee di shell kt mane tu, k.l ke or p.d?
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 Author| Post time 2-1-2008 08:46 PM | Show all posts

Reply #43 True-X's post

tune x penah rase rendah diri x.....mesti x kan...besh ar tune x sering think positif.....n sy catitkan kata2 awak
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 Author| Post time 2-1-2008 08:48 PM | Show all posts

Reply #39 sunshine66's post

waaaa...ko dpt shell lagi hebat ek ko nie...ak bukan shell ler...best ar ko dpt shell.....ko x yah rase rendah diri...sbb mesti ko terror....umur ko berapa?
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Post time 2-1-2008 09:47 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by hippo_gurl at 2-1-2008 08:46 PM
tune x penah rase rendah diri x.....mesti x kan...besh ar tune x sering think positif.....n sy catitkan kata2 awak


of coz penah... ni aku bg ko advise fes hand nieh dari org yg penah rase rendah diri yg amat sgt...

skrg aku still belajar cara nak baiki diri sendiri.. magazine dan bacaan2 lain banyak bantu.. BANYAKKAN MEMBACE.. JGN ASIK BACE NOVEL CINTAN CINTUN JER.. kl beli magazine tuh macam Cleo ker Kosmopolitan ker ( 2 tuh fav aku tuh..).. aper aper jerlah... ader banyak tips nak tingkatkan diri... tp jgn lah ko jadi mangsa pesyen dlm mag tuh lak..

termasuk lah porem nieh... banyak mende leh blajar...cayangggg CARI poremmm

[ Last edited by  True-X at 2-1-2008 09:50 PM ]
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Post time 2-1-2008 09:47 PM | Show all posts
aku x terer lew...aku lg teruk dr ko kalu nak tau...dalam forum je aku banyak cakap..klu kat luar pijak semut x mati...

tp seyes aku bese je...

tapi harapan utama aku aku nak keje kat klcc sebab senang aku nak shopping hikhik
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Post time 3-1-2008 07:41 AM | Show all posts
feel good abt urself

cemana nak dapat tu?...kalo rajin google "self-esteem"...terlalu byk artikle pasal isu nie

my tips...learn how to like urself, identify ur strength and ur weakness...things that u have to admit, u admit it...things that u have to improve, u must improve...senang u nak buat check list kalo dah tahu kekurangan dan kelebihan diri

buang negatif feeling...such as," i am no good"...bila tuhan cipta kita, dia dah bagi package yg sgt baik utk kita kembangkan potensi dlm diri...tapi u takleh duduk dan tunggu sampai bergolek depan mata...u kena carik dan korek thru thinking process, thru hard work, thru experince..and thru knowledge....

once u comfortable with urself, naturally and beautifully u will be opened to the world around u...and believe me, people like u of what u are

look at mawi for example...crowd love him because of himself, dun fake like other singer...dah melayu tu jadi melayu sajalah...tak perlu tukar identity to make people fall in love with us...be ur self
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Post time 3-1-2008 09:35 AM | Show all posts

Reply #11 sunshine66's post

ala..saba jela..pasni ko nampak lelaki macho terang2 ko cakap kuat2 depan pakwe ko 2..baru padan die!!
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 Author| Post time 3-1-2008 09:09 PM | Show all posts

Reply #47 True-X's post

yup....ak bukan nk bodek ek forum nie...tp dengan forum nie ak banyak belajar bende2 baru n segala nasihat yg korang semua bagi bukannye omong kosong......memang ak berterima kasih ler ngn forom cari nie
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 Author| Post time 3-1-2008 09:10 PM | Show all posts

Reply #48 sunshine66's post

iyer ler tuuuuuuuuu....mesti ko hebat dr ak
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Post time 4-1-2008 12:17 AM | Show all posts
aku pn de masalah lbh krg ngan pmbuka thread nih.bezanya aku xkeje lg.bln 5 ni br abis blajar.aku pn xkonfiden la nk keje nnt.mcm2 aku pikir,bleh ke aku dpt keje ngan pointer xsberapa nih.bleh ke aku msk dunia br nnt.mcm2 lg la yg aku pikir lg.lgpun communication skill n speaking ni tahap sederhana je.tkt la plak...
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 Author| Post time 4-1-2008 09:02 PM | Show all posts
takut wey...memang takut...waktu beljar lg besh....tp sementara ko study nie...ko belajar ler speaking ngn kekwan ko...x de ler malu sbb selalu jumpe...nie cam ak dah nyesal deh....dah tua2 ...x terror pun
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Post time 4-1-2008 11:10 PM | Show all posts
rendah diri yer? senang jek obat tuuu..

ko pi carik mana de lombong kosong..kendian tejun  ok?

cuba la try test tenguk

kalo tokleh berkawan dengan diri sendiri dulu..kalo tokleh terima diri sendiri dulu..kalo tokleh make peace dengan diri sendiri dulu..kalo tokleh happy dengan diri sendiri dulu..toksah harap sesapa lain tu nak kawan ko

jangankan manusia..kucing pun larik dari ko..dia mai masa nak makan jek taw


gi google bab2 self improvement k?
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Post time 4-1-2008 11:20 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by hippo_gurl at 4-1-2008 09:02 PM
takut wey...memang takut...waktu beljar lg besh....tp sementara ko study nie...ko belajar ler speaking ngn kekwan ko...x de ler malu sbb selalu jumpe...nie cam ak dah nyesal deh....dah tua2 ...x  ...


ko save duit wat tambang jek kendian cuba duk negara omputih misal setaun dua..travel setaun gitu..tenguk leh survive tak dengan apa skill ko ada..toksah bawak duit makan seme2 tu..carik di sana..keje dan paksa diri untuk SURVIVE cam cite survival tuh haa..

aku bet tak sampai setaun jek ko dah terer speaking london..nak cakap belacan pun ko sebut aaaa do u have prawn paste?

actually takyah gi overc or dikelilingi omputih..kalo keliling ko tu oang bisu or oang gila pun ko still leh mahir speaking tu

ianya cuma latihan jek..ko ulang buat jek sampai btui2 efficient gitu..trial error so ATTITUDE tu ler penting, fear factor ni mende natural gak..fitrah , untuk hayat ko gak..kalo tadak rasa takut , main terjah jek..silap2 hilang nyawa so asasi nya ada rasa takut

imaginasi ko tu kene pebetui..penuh wayang takut2, wayang kene kutuk kene gelak tapi ko tenguk cik siti kita tu..dia paksa blajo tulis dan cakap in english gak..walo dia tak gemo , tapi sebab keperluan karier dia kalo de wartawan asing duk tanya or kalo dia dah set untuk karier peringkat international

kalo de duit lebih tu pi la class english area ko kalo de..kalo tadak carik laa tutor kee.. kene rajin baca in english , dalam NET tu penuh seme in english

paling penting KENE BUANG SIKAP TAKUT BUAT SILAP tuuu aaa ok?  ko kene replace dengan kepercayaan baru bahwa silap tu pakej kejayaan gak, susah tu pakej kejayaan gak, banyakkan membaca in english, cuba kawan ngan chinese or indian ramai sikit..depa tu kalo borak with malays salu in english pasal bm depa pelat..kalo cakap kang kelako ...ok?
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 Author| Post time 5-1-2008 10:23 AM | Show all posts
yes bos...mesti bos nie seorg positive thinking kan
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Post time 5-1-2008 02:52 PM | Show all posts
Banyak faktor yg sebab kan rasa rendah diri ni...

Klu background broken family - just thinking ko mesti ubah hidup jadi lebih baik dan hepi selalu.

Klu x de boyfriend *tipula kata x kisah xde boyfriend* umur dh 23...dh start kejer, mesti terasa sunyi apalg rasa rendah diri* - Ada boyfriend klu pun ko kena tipu *jgn smpai serah segalanya dah le* itu ada proses pembelajran dlm hidup. jgn rasa takut utk rasa kecewa dan sedih. Klu hubungan baik bonus utk ko, dpt bersama dgn org yg ko cinta.

kalau x cantik, muka berjerawat, kulit gelap, bibir pucat - pegila facial, touch-up sikit muka* jgn berlebihan plak* pakai lipstick nipis jgn nmpak mcm org sakit. Pakaian biarla kemas dan warna pilihan biar bersesuaian dgn keadaan.

Klu gigi probelem- jumpa dentist *elakkan klinik kerajaan*  klu boleh.

Klu x pandai nk berborak - Jadila seorg pendengar yg baik dan jgn lokek bagi senyuman, dan bila ckp belajar pandang muka org yg ckp dgn kita tu, beranikan diri bagi pendapat atau sedikit komen.

Klu english x fluent - beli novel english baca , mn word x paham bukala kamus...klu takut tggang lggang speaking, ko nyanyi je la lagu english hafal lirik. lagu Old Mc' donald pun ok...

Klu rasa diri tu ;pendiam'...tarik nafas dlm2, ringan kan mulut tegur member opis, tegurla masa jumpa cth: 'Ana!!' sebut nama pun ok. x payah melalut citer pnjang kdg2 skali skala terserempak say Hai pun dh boleh expose diri di kalangan kawan2 opis. x semestinya org yg byk ckp tu disukai ramai, mgkin didepan suka, belakang asyik kene kutuk bila asyik cerita merapu. Yang penting wlupun pendiam, tp ko seorang pendengar yg baik... dan rajin2 la senyum sokmo.


Apapun hanya ko yg boleh mengubah diri ko nk jadi mcm mana, yg penting ko mesti 'Berani' utk kebaikan, jgn berani utk kemungkaran sudah.... good luck!!!
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 Author| Post time 5-1-2008 11:54 PM | Show all posts

Reply #27 sunshine66's post

td kat tv2 ade citer legally blonde 1...memang best...ak ingat lg kate elle...YAKIN PADE KEBOLEHAN DIRI SENDIRI... citer tu besh...THANKZ SUNSHINE:handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake: :handshake:
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 Author| Post time 5-1-2008 11:57 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by cimiau at 5-1-2008 02:52 PM

Klu x de boyfriend *tipula kata x kisah x ...

per faedah kalau tipu...betul...x semua nasib perempuan sama..hehehehhe....ermmm...memang betul ,la nie ak asyik nynyi lagu english jer...bg mahir speaking
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