Down and Out

tasha76

Ustaz tu buatkan Tasha rasa macam tak da semangat nak crita panjang. Like its ok for a guy to do anything.

So I found some one else ,..a lady from jabatan agama untuk tanya apa2. Dia memang baik. She has become one of my good friend.Anything boleh rujuk balik kat dia. Tapi of course kena balik juga kat ustaz tu

Lipton

Betul tasha...u kena minta cerai fasakh or taklik tu...pasai ustaz tu..buat bodo jerlah..ada jer ustaz haprak akhir2 zaman ni...tak guna satu sen pun...:@

Lipton

since ustazah tu dah kamcing ngan u..consult ngan dia cam mana nak buat tuntutan cerai fasakh or taklik tu....free ur self dear....toksah pikir nak kesian ke hape pada somi tu...some people need to learn thru hard way....it is his choice...

BingkaUbi

ko selak balik thread dulu2...thread eidajj kot yg ada list nama loyer sumer tuhhh......yg free pun aku rasa ada kot tp biasa la, lambat gilerr

jenna

Originally posted by tasha76 at 24-12-2007 04:14 PM


To Jenna

You are as unimportant to me as I am to you. I have come to hate you as much as u hate me. So I do not need ur advice atau cacian dan kutukan.Your words have no banefit for me.So  ...

funny... why post my quote half half... nk quote, quotelah the whole sentence including the part that u urself pun ada affair... with married man plak tu... please lah, kak sha...... nk crita buruk org critalah skali buruk diri sendiri tu jgk.... jgnlah harap nk dpt laki sebaik Nabi kalu diri tu pun tak blh jadik sebaik bini Nabi... what u give u get backlah...

i dont think cyber cafe is ur standardlah.... last year's raya haji pegi holiday with frens kat siam... this year punya raya sambut kat cyber cafe.... wah..!!!! betullah u kata.... raya is really not a big deal to you....

last but not least...... i would rather have an indon to be my sister in law rather than a manipulating woman... and please get ur fact rightl... ur husband is workinglah.. jgnlah nk buat point bagik org kesian.... but the money part... it is between u n him punya cerita...

[ Last edited by  cantthinkofany at 24-12-2007 05:52 PM ]

BingkaUbi

Originally posted by jenna at 24-12-2007 05:03 PM


funny... why post my quote half half... nk quote, quotelah the whole sentence including the part that u urself pun ada affair... with married man plak tu... please lah, kak sha...... nk crita ...

jenna...aku baca thread ko duluk dorang kata ko dpt gelang mas sbb backing abg ipar ko....dah dpt ke blom?

BingkaUbi

kalu somi tuhh betui la somi.......dah repot suh org tangkap khalwat bini dia, naper dia simpan gak bini tuh lagi? kalu nak simpan niat nak baikkan hubungan then didik la bini tuhh...kalu simpan nak nyusahkan idup org, jgn jdk jantan kalu takat nak buli pompuannn.....kalu tak dayus, ceraikan bini tuhhh........abis citerr.........dah jantan camni pung ada gak pompuan yg dok nak bela bagusss........alahai pompuan pungggggg

[ Last edited by  BingkaUbi at 24-12-2007 05:21 PM ]

jenna

Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 24-12-2007 05:09 PM




jenna...aku baca thread ko duluk dorang kata ko dpt gelang mas sbb backing abg ipar ko....dah dpt ke blom?

nk dpt mcm mana..??? kan abg ipar aku tu sengkek tahap kucing kurap... kalau ko dpt tasha tu jdk bini ko mesti ko pun larik duduk hutanlah..... unlesslah lah dpt jadik kekasih gelap.... mesti syiok punya....

tasha76

Thank u bingka,..
this is exactly my point...
Tasha kan jahat dia orang kata...so ....why nak menyusahkan hidup kita lagi....Can just leave kan.

Aik ,... ada lagi ke Jenna nyer post,...kan dah kata tak yah post,..tak yah maki hamun,....kan tengah sarat tu,..tak yah la,... civilized la sikit.

[ Last edited by  tasha76 at 24-12-2007 05:31 PM ]

jenna

Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 24-12-2007 05:20 PM
kalu somi tuhh betui la somi.......dah repot suh org tangkap khalwat bini dia, naper dia simpan gak bini tuh lagi? kalu nak simpan niat nak baikkan hubungan then didik la bini tuhh...kalu simpan  ...

aku tak bela sesiapa pun... even abg ipar aku tu pun aku tak backing... kalu ko tau citer sebenar ko pun bleh sakit jiwalah.....

jenna

Originally posted by tasha76 at 24-12-2007 05:26 PM
Thank u bingka,..
this is exactly my point...
Tasha kan jahat dia orang kata...so ....why nak menyusahkan hidup kita lagi....

Aik ,... ada lagi ke Jenna nyer post,...kan dah kata tak yah pos ...

cari ni public forumlah..... sapa yg tak civilised..???? i tot pompuan/lelaki yg suka beraffair nilah yg tak civilised...

BingkaUbi

Originally posted by jenna at 24-12-2007 05:27 PM


aku tak bela sesiapa pun... even abg ipar aku tu pun aku tak backing... kalu ko tau citer sebenar ko pun bleh sakit jiwalah.....

aku pung tak mo tau citer sebenar......tasha ngadu kat sini aku jawab jekk la....betui ka tak betui ka, bkn masalah aku lerrrr.....cam dorang sokmo bilang, dok dalam porem ni kita layan syok jekkkk

tasha76

He,..he,..he

urda1iluv

adessss!! ade perang adik bradik ke kat sinih!!!

tasha76

No,no,no

I tak nak perang dengan dia. All I need are solutions.Those who kindly offer advice are very much thanked.:flower:

If she wants to continue cursing,..what can I do. Like she said " Its a public forum"

cocklea

sebab kalau lelaki tu lelaki jugak. tak kisah lah lawyer ker, ustaz ker, tapi pemikiran tetap towards one thing, yg perempuan mesti menurut. even masa kakak aku bercerai dulu pon, ustaz kat pusat islam tu ada yg macam nak menyindir, even though dah terbukti ex-hb kakak aku ni perangai memang cam fark.

aku lelaki new age and i believe in human rights and gender equalities. my conclusion, your husband is an a-hole and garbage. keeping him around buat bazir duit and masa. get rid of him, stat!

tasha76

I have a friend yang suami dia kena tangkap jual dadah,walaupun masuk mahkamah di gari tetap hakim tu marah2 si isteri tu mintak cerai. kata wife tu no value

cocklea

wat the hell, no value? like his righteous statement tu valueable sangat kot. come on, drug pusher tuh, the wife got every rights to mintak cerai, sedap molot jer cakap orang takde value.

but there is a thing called karma. masa my sis tu cerai ngan hubby dia, lepas jatuh talak, keluar dari pusat islam tu, cermin depan kereta mamat tuh pecah berderai. itu kuasa Allah lah kita tak tau.

and now, he's married to a mentally disturbed woman and got a child out of wedlock. and im not just saying that the woman is mentally disturbed. she is on medication and got to see a shrink every now and then. diorang cakap apa postpartum depression ker apa. karma baby!

tasha76

Whoa!!!

I was just thinking about Karma this morning. I do belive in its powers too.
Further more if u have good intentions in your heart,...insyaalah.
Good intentions so that everyone is happy and not to wish anyone unhappiness.

Like the book " The Secret " say : If u intentionally say or hope to hurt anyone, the universe will return the negative to you ten fold.

yays

Tasha,

kalau betul-betul tasha dah memang tak tahan dengan karenah suami, ada betul nya tasha ikut nasihat ubi tuh, minta fasakh adalah yang terbaik dengan bukti-bukti yang suami memang tak bagi nafkah seperti dalam surat nikah. Kalau ikut pandangan aku ler kan, buat ape ler nak simpan laki berhati kering dan hampehs tahap gaban macam tu.. lebih baik hentikan sekarang semasa muda lagi dan mulakan hidup baru.. tapi bak kata pinkish ler kan (laki dia pun tahap hampehs cam laki ko pung, cuma dah semakin elok daripada dulu) sekurang-kurangnya anak dia berbapa lagi.

Lagi satu, daripada tasha gaduh-gaduh dengan jenna tuh, nampak sangat hidup dalam keluarga yang tak berapa harmoni dan memang sesungguhnya menyalahkan tasha.. apa nak diharap lagi keluarga macam tu?

Jadik tasha, tepuk dada tanya selera.. mana yang tasha rasa terbaik.

Daripada 10 pasangan yang pergi pejabat kadi, 9 adalah salah isteri dan drag kes sampai bertahun. Motif pejabat agama untuk melambat-melambatkan proses ialah supaya kedua-dua pihak sejuk dan harap-harapnya tak jadik bercerai. Jadik selamat 1 lagi rumahtangga..

Motif salahkan perempuan pulak ialah supaya menyelamatkan ego suami sementalahan dalam agama pun menyatakan perempuan kena ikut perintah suami selagi tak bertentangan dengan agama. Tu yang aku kadang-kadang bersetuju dengan satu artikel mana tah yang aku baca.. dia kata dalam muslim tak nampak islam tapi dalam islam tak ada muslim bila merujuk hal-hal yang berkaitan dengan perempuan nih.. macam kat arab tu ar, ada betul ka kalau perempuan yang kena rogol tuh dihukum sama? berbanding dengan hukum sivil yang perempuan dirogol boleh dapat pembelaan.

satu lagi, perempuan ni dia boleh tahan dipersalahkan.. tapi cuba dia salahkan suami, mau pak ustad tu terduduk kena pelempang kat situ.. ataupun sememangnya dunia ni dah akhir zaman, ustaz sesat pun dah ramai..